Do-Over Moments #CleverDoOver #spon

I’ll be honest, I had never heard of the term “do-over” before moving to the United States.  I remember the first time I heard it I had a long list of moments scrolling through my mind that I would have liked a do-over for.  Most of them have to do with parenting…

One in particular comes to mind when our daughter was just a couple of months old.  She’s 16 now, but it’s something we still talk about.  Actually I can laugh about it now, back then – I was simply horrified and thought for sure I was in the running for worst mother of the year.

See my husband had a co-worker that ended up leaving their workplace and opened a restaurant in a small town about an hour and a half outside the city.  We decided to drive out when our daughter was a few months old to eat there, as we had not yet been there and they had not yet seen our daughter.

Parenting came with a bit of a learning curve for me (well I guess it does with everyone!), and since generally our daughter was really laid back and easy going, when things went wrong…they really went wrong.  And that evening, she was a little stinker…literally.

Tell me…how can such a cute, small bundle…create such a HUGE stinky mess?!

Full. Blow. Out.  If you’re a parent, you know exactly what I mean.  There was no salvaging the cute, adorable little outfit she was wearing, because really a public restroom sink…not cutting it, when you’re trying to wrangle an infant into a clean diaper and get out a clean outfit.

|  Umm…so a brief message from Frigidaire (I could even have used this to clean her up!)

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Okay back to our regularly scheduled blog post:

Oh um yeah, that’s where I epic parent failed.  I DIDN’T PACK AN EXTRA OUTFIT IN THE DIAPER BAG!!!  Really, I mean who doesn’t check the bag before leaving home to make sure there are extra clothes in it when you have a baby (me apparently)?! 

So here I come walking back from the restroom, with my baby who is now only wearing a disposable diaper and paper towels, back to the table where my husband’s friend is introducing all of the staff to him waiting for me…

This, this my friends, is a do-over moment if there ever was one.  Until I no longer carried a diaper bag, EVERY time we left home my husband asked me “do you have a couple of extra outfits in there?”…sigh….

So if I had a do-over on that moment, I’d make sure I’d have half my daughter’s dresser and closet contents packed in that diaper bag.  Along with a wet bag so I could have salvaged the oh so cute outfit that I ended up having to toss.  I know, I know it’s really a paltry thing in hindsight, but at THAT moment, I was so embarrassed and horrified I was speechless (and those of you who have met me in real life, know that almost never happens!)

So make me feel better…what’s your do-over parenting moment?

I was compensated for this post as a member of Clever Girls Collective. All the opinions expressed here are my own.

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